[lost] love

what do you do when love is lost?

many may say move on with your life "you have your whole life ahead of you" - but what happens when the one you need doesn't need you?




one day life is great. the sun is shining on your love. everyone sees the passion in your eyes. but it seems when life gets good, it gets bad soon after. i have lost love before. it is the worst feeling one could ever feel. although everything is ok now [tears dried, heart & mind content, etc.] i admit i was a wreck. i couldn't eat, sleep, & all i ever did was cry. it is not until you are at the bottom that you realize there is absolutely no reason to feel the way you feel. but what can you do? listen to rap. ignore him/her. many techniques but until you are truly ready...there is no getting over it..you will see their face, smell their scent, hear them call your name, and even miss the bad times. advice to those struggling through a difficult break-up: the break up occurred for a reason..God, or whoever you believe in is telling you that there is more out there than what you are currently receiving. don't always question what goes on, but go with the flow. there is a plan & everything WILL be ok. take your time when meeting new people & don't rush into giving them your all [most are not worth it anyways]

playlist for a broken heart:

1st stage: SADNESS

• fistful of tears-maxwell
• lost without you-robin thicke
• yo side of the bed-trey songz
• emotions-destiny's child
• part of the list-neyo
• it kills me-melanie fiona

2nd stage: ANGER

• resentment-beyonce
• if i was a boy-beyonce
• rather go blind-etta james
• me myself and i-beyonce
• im going down-mary j. blidge
• falling out- keyshia cole
• firebomb-rihanna

3rd stage: MOVING ON

• holla if you need me-trey songz
• crawl-chris brown
• if-destiny's child
• drop the world-lil wayne
• russian roulette-rihanna
• still standing-monica

[the most important thing]...

realizing life goes on, there's more fish in the sea!

if you have someone in your life who doesn't realize your worth, they are not worth your time.

p.s.
MOVE ON>>>LIFE IS TOO SHORT!