.love the way you lie.

lately i have been hearing "love the way you lie" by eminem & rihanna so much. it is crazy how the right song comes on at the right moment. this song slaps me in the face everytime i hear it because i have been there before. the place where you are hurt so much by someone and sometimes you accept the dumb things they do or say. you know that they will continue until you stand up for yourself and make it clear that you are not taking it anymore even thought that is one of the hardest things to do. the song basically is talking about abusive relationships & even if you are not getting hit, a relationship can be verbally and emotionally abusive. sometimes for a woman or a man, the love that is felt is so strong that one will avoid the pain which is placed upon them. it will happen over and over again. the song speaks about the pain a person goes through while being in love..sometimes not being to breathe and fighting to the death literally and mentally. fighting to hold on until one party comes to the point where they can't take it anymore & they walk away. i love this song & everytime i hear it, it takes me back to a place where i never want to go again. the saddest part is both people might truly be in love but know deep down the relationship is not healthy for either one of them. they might not want to walk away but someone has to make the responsible decision to save the love they share for each other, because true love knows when it is time to let go. the point of letting go is so that two lovers will not end up resenting each other even though sometimes that can't be avoided. when you truly love someone, you make decisons that may hurt but will ultimately shelter them from pain. when you truly love someone, sometimes the best decision is to be apart from them and even move on. "love the way you lie" is a reflection of a love that is dangerous. a love that once was strong but now hurts all who are involved. love that should be preserved and left with sweet memories so that things will not get worse than they already are.


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it's crazy how you love the way you hurt because of the person you're in love with. sometimes the pain seems bareable because you are blinded by the passion but growing up comes with realizing when you are in an unhealthy relationship and knowing when it is time to let go.

"The Decision"

so im sure everyone knows about this huge deal with lebron james & the heat...it was so crazy because so many people wanted him to go other places. i mean geesh even President Obama said it!


"As I've mentioned before, I think LeBron would look great in a Bulls uniform," the president told reporters during a special morning press briefing in the Oval Office. "It's a great basketball city, and I think he'd fit right in. Just like I fit in here in my office—which, if you hadn't noticed when you entered, is the Oval Office, the center of power of the United States and, by extension, the Western world."

"Sorry, I think I may have gotten sidetracked there and said something irrelevant," added the president, walking casually over the presidential seal on the White House rug. "Or possibly not. In any case, I think LeBron would be perfect for the Bulls and their excellent core of young players. It's a team game, and in any team game it's important to have good teammates, as I'm fond of telling my own teammates, like the joint chiefs, the secretary of state, and, you know, the nation of Britain."


but sadly for me [who wanted him to go to New York initially] & the big man in office, he took the route to south beach. i can't blame the man..i mean for over $100 million i would go too! but i said all of this to show you all a video spoof of "The Decision", a music video which made me laugh so i wnated to share the joy.




Hopefully the "KING" will have fun in the sun [i know i did in MIAMI], receive a ring in a couple of years with his new teammates, and have a successful career with the Heat!

-GOOD LUCK :)